I’m 14 years old . my brothers best friend started texting me and I view this guy as my brother (hes 16) and we were talking and I mean I’m called sis on his phone . so we were texting one night about my day at college that I’d been asked out and I said no so this guy shouted at ms calling me an f****** c**t . and obvs I was very embarrassed over it . This guy is very protective over me but I always thought that was because he thought of me as his sister so he was like I’ll beat him up send ms his number (I said no). But after that the conversation started to get darker he asked me if i would kiss him,then he said would I sleep with him (again I said no ew) then he told me he masturbates while looking at my picture and all he thinks about is my pussy and he wants to take my virginity and would I give him a blow job etc it got worse he went more detailed . i said no to all of this and blocked him,buy after I felt ashamed and embarrassed I never wantdd to see him again , I felt like I had done something wrong and was I leading him on . I started doubting myself . But no I’ve realised now I didn’t do anything wrong I trusted him as a brother he said all those things and I said no to all of them. He said next time he sees me hes going to kiss ms whether I like it or not and it will lead to me . this made me cross but ffor some reason i wasnt scared of him because guys have groped me and said innapropriate stuff to me before , actually he was one of them . and the other day I saw him and I was with my brother and other friends and the same guy turned around and “accidentally” groped my boob hard and because of this page and other things I’ve read about women being sexually abused , i don’t know what came over me cause normally I ignore it but I slapped him right round the face in front of everyone (we were in a big city) and I told tmy friends What he did. And my brother is no longer friends with him. But I was actually proud of myself that day that day I felt like I had all you girls behind me and I felt confident for the first time in my life . So thank you so so much lady’s I coudmt of done it without you, don’t stay silent speak! I am a feminist from this experience and you know what I’m fucking proud of it .
