Tag Archives: pregnancy

Paula

While pregnant, one of my colleagueas told me that he was sad for my husband, that since I was pregnant I was unbearable. After giving birth I lost 10kg, and now my colleague keeps making references to my weight and how I look so much better tan before.

Candy

My daughter works at a homeless shelter for very young parenting or pregnant (or both) girls. I could fill pages with the things men do to these girls. The one that bothered me today: One young guy prevents the girl from using birth control and he won’t use a rubber–so of course she gets pregnant. . . which makes him happy because then he can crow about it to his friends. But then, when she gets a bit too heavy, he oops pushes her down the stairs. She miscarries. And . . . he’s happy again. Repeat ad nauseum. Because he thinks it’s his unquestionable right to treat her that way. Apparently it must be, as nobody ever nails him for it.

Charlotte

Just got cat-called by some builders while walking past on my way to work in central London. I am four months pregnant and was visibly wearing a ‘Baby on Board’ badge. I’m already feeling vulnerable and hormonal, this made me want to go home and cry.

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I came home one day over a year ago and told my parents that I was pregnant, I intended to have an abortion and preceded to do so but as a minor, I needed their legal consent to do so. They weren’t angry at me, largely because they knew I was responsible and already intended to do the ‘right thing’ for my future but it was also because of an utterly ridiculous reason that has stuck with me to this day – They were angry at ‘him’. The guy who had got me pregnant because obviously a girl doesn’t have the initiative to go out and have unprotected sex, it must have been ‘his’ idea. And honestly, I was more shocked than anything else. There was no anger at me, no telling me I should’ve acted responsibly, no asking me why it had happened; just ‘Who is he?’ and ‘I’m going to kill him.’ while I stood completely blameless for my own actions.

Jade

Came back to work after a week off work with a pelvis problem related to pregnancy. To find I have no desk or computer since they moved the admin staff to our office. Then I was told by a colleague that my manager thought to save me walking up & the stairs I could sit in reception. So gone from caring for clients & having to ensure deadlines were met to answering the phones & that’s now my only responsibility.