I went to see a psychologist 3 days after I was raped by my boyfriend in my own home. He said to me that I wouldn’t have been raped if I didn’t let my boyfriend into my house.

He also shamed me for not reporting it to the police. I didn’t know his last name (he was a very new boyfriend) and I had no idea where he lived. Our judicial system doesn’t charge rapists, especially for spousal rape.
I was so distraught afterwards that I sought psychological support and it traumatized me more.