mj
my dad literally can’t go a day without yelling at my mum bc i don’t know how to cook traditional Bengali dishes/curries at fifteen and apparently its HER fault I can’t cook. he’s constantly talking about how no one would want to marry me because I wouldn’t be able to provide them with decent food after a day at work and then when I asked him how he got married without knowing how to cook, his answer was ‘well im not the daughter in the family, why would I need to know shit like that’. I told one of my teachers at school about how sexist my family is and they called me ‘white-washed’ and ‘western’ and said that that’s just what life is like with immigrant parents. … my teacher’s a middle aged white guy from Manchester-