My girlfriend today was sent an incoming video call on WhatsApp. She assumed it was a contact and answered. It was a man wanking. We reported and blocked it. We aren’t aware of anything else we can do. We’ve not seen any information about this – how much of an issue it is, what can be done about it. Once again we feel alone in a world where we are a majority gender.
I’m 15 and my school has a swimming unit during our Phys. Ed. classes. So, I go to the locker room and change into my swimsuit and when I come out this group of boys quite obviously looks me up and down and one of them even whistles at me. Meanwhile, my MALE teacher looks on and does nothing. Now, I should say that this happens all the time while a have a rather large chest and butt for my age but, I am 15 and it’s still degrading and it still feels awful. And the boys still do it after countless reporting I’ve done and other girls in my class have done. But, I swear the second one of them touches me or any other girl in my class I will have no problem getting physical if that’s what it takes.
when i was away on a girls holiday two years ago i got too drunk and my friends put me back to bed.when i was up there was a guy lying next to me with this hand down my shorts and i was topless,i dont know if anything else happened,i just woke to this.i immediately pulled away and started freaking out,i couldn’t see any of my friends,his friends were sitting in the room just watching as it happened,i had passed out from drink he night before so was in a deep sleep.I felt so dirty and ashamed after,as if it was my fault! it has made me so nervous now with drinking,im afraid ill get “too drunk” again and someone will think its perfectly okay to take advantage of me.