Homophobic

Sage

A boy I knew in Elementary and middle school messaged me out of the blue. He told me that he liked me. That wasn’t the problem. He said in a respectful manner. I told him I liked somebody else. He asked if I would consider him. I said sorry, no. I told him I like girls (this is how I reject guys because they assume it means I am a lesbian when in actuality, I’m bi). He asked me if I was sure. I told him yes. I told him I am a homosexual (a true statement, I’m biromantic homosexual). He kept pushing. He asked if I’d ever been with a guy. I told him no. He asked, “so then how do you know you don’t like guys?” I told him I just know. He asked me if I’d ever sexually experimented with a guy. I told him no. Then he implied that I should sexually experiment with him. At this point, I shut down the conversation. This was far too far. He was borderline offering corrective rape. This was homophobic and sexist. Not only did he not believe me when I told him I didn’t want to fuck him because I’m gay, but he pried enough to get to that point. He didn’t believe me when I said I didn’t like him back, when I said no the first time. He felt the need to convince me that I was wrong. Not to mention that he and I were both 14 when offered to “sexually experiment” with me. The world fucking sucks.

Shenae

A male co-worker found out i was gay when we were both in the break room together. Unsurprisingly he asked what all males as when they find out “How do you have sex?” followed “Why don’t you be a girl?” I was completely confused and responded with “What do you mean?” he looked me straight in the eye and smiled while saying “Why don’t you fuck a guy”…. I was completely shocked because he had always been nice. The next time we were in the break room together he sat next to me, he has a joking kind of personality you see, so no one saw what he did next as inappropriate, He sat next to me, put his arm around my waist and put his hand on my thigh then asked me if i could have his baby…. I had no idea what to do other than play along and take it as a joke even though i felt extremely uncomfortable and violated.