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My car got a flat tire. I got the car jacked, got out the spare, swapped the tire, and put everything back exactly as it needed to be on my own while my husband was at work. I drove my car down to the shop where I have gotten the last two sets of tires on this very car, explained and then gave them the flat for me to pick up the next day. When my husband and I returned the next day while doing some other errands together, the mechanics only talked with him. They didn’t make eye contact with me, direct any questions towards me, and with each question, my husband would listen to them, then look directly to me for an answer. I have taken care of this car on my own for years.My husband knows almost nothing about it. I have done the oil changes myself, I have changed my own brakes, I know this car inside out and yet because there was a man in the vicinity, I was completely obsolete.