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Once I did the experiment: my boyfriend and me were on holiday and were going to have lunch and dinner out almost everyday. We have a common credit card but I usually have it in my wallet, so in ALL the restaurants I was the one who took it out of my wallet (often in front of the weiter who is going to charge us). The credit card has my name, NEREA, a girl´s name. There was no occasion in which the weiter gave me the machine to put the PIN Code. In another occasion, I was having a drink with 3 more friends (2 boys, and a girl). The weiter came and I gave 20 euros (it was about 12). The boy next to me gave him, LATER, 50€ saying he wantedd to pay (we started the typical discussion between us because we both wanted to pay. The weiter took his money when I said it was sexxist because I was the first one giving him the money and because, moreover, it was better for him to take 20 and no 50, so he did not have any excuse, it had to be sexim. The weiter apologyied in this ocassion and said I was right, It was a mistake and that it had been a sexist action. At least, I think he was aware and that we will think next time in this kind of situations!