My friend is a gay woman. She doesn’t present as femme. She was taking driving lessons from a local, reputable man who had VERY high ratings on his page. All from young men. All the photos on his facebook business page are with him standing next to beaming young men. NONE of the good reviews came from women, and there were no bad reviews.
She’s in the car with this man in his 60s. She is in her early 20s. He starts off by telling her he loves “big women, they’re so sexy” (my friend is not small). My friend is uncomfortable with this, but she has already paid for her lesson and doesn’t say anything.
Man: Do you have a boyfriend?
Friend: No, I’m gay
M: Well, you just haven’t met the right man yet.. You should give a man a go. I’m willing
F: No I’m gay, I don’t want that.
He kept going, trying to change her mind, trying to touch her, touching her leg, her arm. He was talking about his wife and his grandchildren, while he was trying to grope my beautiful, disinterested and now traumatized friend. He was calling her pet names and being overwhelmingly predatory.
What a piece of shit. His job is to teach teens to drive. He shouldn’t be in the car with young women.