My co worker and friend, beautiful lovely funny mate, who is also studying social work at uni!! he has/had a crude sense of humour.. ok dirty infact. To begin with i could laugh and i could see the funny side of it. sex after all is funny. but then he would insert my name or my body part.. it was just wrong, and he thought it was hilarious. i mentioned to him that if he continued to do this and did it with someone without a sense of humour he may just end up on “current affair”( tv program commonly airing litigious type civil cases ) for sexual harassment. in effort to deter him further i would make disparaging noises whence the ‘joke’ ensued… i wish i could have said more, done more, been more assertive and told him how it made me feel. Which is that i do not like feeling like a walking vagina every day. i do not like to feel like you are thinking about me sexually, it is not flattery. i wish he could “GET” how messed up his behaviour was. I am not a freaking walking vagina for you to do this to me!! makes me soooo angry… was he getting his kicks somehow? i don’t get it. i even told my supervisor about this ( a friend apparently, and she made me feel although i was overeacting). she eventually had words to him, when a 20 something girl made the same complaint…and yes he has been very very professional with me now. but cooled and distanced, hope he has learnt something, he’s a nice guy really just an example of how ignorant boys are to our plight.. … which is don’t make me feel like a sex object….oh god makes me so mad still!! and sad