I had a kind of friends with benefits situation and the guy asked me to take his virginity (we were in college). I said no I wasn’t comfortable with going that far and he acted fine with it and said he respected my decicion. Turns out he spread sexualised rumours about me around the school and I had guys coming up to me saying explicit things they heard about me which weren’t at all true. No one believed me as he was really popular and I was known as a giant slut though I’d only had sex twice in my life.
