I dont remember how old i was but around 14-15. My boyfriend and I were in the same class and so was his close
2 friends. At first they liked me, but later on they thought i took my boyfriend away too much from them (wich i can understand why, but it doesnt make their behaviour okay) so they started teasing me and being mean. On of them particulary were the one starting everything and getting the others to join and be mean to me. He usually called me a whore, gross, ugly and so on. He also used to push me, slam his shoulder into mine, trip me over with his feet so that i would fall too the ground, ask my boyfriend how he could be with me etc. At first it was just teasing and games, i did call him names aswell and hit him if he hit me. But then it resulted in the things I mentioned above. When it was at it worst i didnt even want to go too school, since no one really stood up for me (accept my boyfriend who tried multiple times) and just said “just ignore him”, well how do you ignore someone who pushes you or steals your things? I tried ignoring him, but it only got worse. Two incidents i remember clearly tho happened early on when i was 13-14. Me and my boyfriend just got together and since he was my first ever boyfriend we kinda discovered love together as kids do. I didnt know him or his friends super well by then, and i remember that we had recess and sat in my boyfriends room playing videogames together the three of us. by this time we all were kinda friends, and he hadnt really began to hate me as hardcore yet. Then i remember him go up to were i was sitting, and grabbing my boobs. I was so shocked and didnt say i word, he started laughing and moved away. My boyfriend asked him to leave and i think he did. He later on told me it was a bet and that he got money for doing it. When i look back at it im mad at myself for not standing up for myself, but i understand why i didnt. Not very long after this guy did the same thing, we were standing in the hallway i was maybe around 14, and he just ran up to me and grabbed my boobs again. This time i got really mad and screamed and told him off, and my boyfriend pulled him to the side and told him to stop. But like this time i didnt really think much about it afterwards, but it sure affected me more than i thought it did. I cant remember if he said that he was sorry or not, he only ever said he did it as a bet. Until this day i dont want to be in the same room as him, even tho he had made an attempt at saying sorry through my boyfriend saying that he was immature and just pissed cus i took his bestfriend away from him. But nothing specific. I do get that, but i still dont think hes the type of person i would want to have in my life, and i cant take that sort of apology to heart. Today im 20 years old.
