When I was 21, I got raped by a boy who was helped by his 4friends to pin me down, while he beat and raped me, meanwhile they robbed me of my phone and left me there with him in a huge dark field. I did not want to report it, because I was ashamed and I had had the misfortune of having to deal with the South African police department 2years earlier on an attempted rape charge, where a boy who lived in the same student accommodation as I did, broke into my room in the middle of the night, ripped my clothes off, strangled me & announced that he was there to rape me…… I thank God that I managed to get away from him and let’s just say, nothing came of that…. So with this guy who managed to get it right the second time around (I guess) he got a 5year suspended sentence and house arrest… that’s it. I still bump into him on the street from time to time. Forgiven him? Sure…. Confused about what justice actually is? Most definitely… Oh well. Jesus heals everything:) God bless you for creating this platform. I learned a long time ago that the truth will always set you free, but 1st, it will piss you off.
