shouted down

Apparently me being groped in a pub by a totally random male stranger is proof that I’m attractive which is a win for my boyfriend so it’s quite funny and there’s no need for either of us to be bothered and I shouldn’t be so hypersensitive.
But me buying a drink in the same pub for a man who joined our quiz team for the second time is fucking outrageous,weird and slutty because he will get the wrong impression if a girl (whose boyfriend is literally ten metres away) includes a new quiz mate (who she met through his girlfriend who isn’t here this week but both were on our team last week) when she is buying her boyfriend a drink. I thought that was called a “round of drinks”
Totally worth being shouted at and shamed about. After all, our shared income is his really, including all the winnings which go straight into his wallet.

Glad he’s my ex. Go fault find and shout at someone else whilst ignoring my safety and “drawing a line” under your appalling verbal violence. I had to lock myself in the car outside the pub the shouting got so bad, just to wait for him to calm down. Remind me which gender is meant to be hysterical?