I am now 60yrs old, but when much younger my husband put up nude pictures of women in his shed even as I objected that I found them demeaning. He also put a large mirror above our bed so he could watch me whenever he liked…it was NOT a consensual sex “toy” but a control thing which made me very uncomfortable and objectified. Many years later I confront him with these things and he says I am a mad cow dredging up rubbish and making out he is bad.
