I’m sure many women can relate to the following message I had to send a 27 year old Doctor following our first date from Tinder and his 3 oblivious subsequent text messages:
“Hi. I feel like I should tell you what I thought about the other night in the hope that you won’t do it again. As soon as you bought that 3rd drink so you couldn’t drive home I knew I wouldn’t see you again. I thought we could have a good evening though but I made it clear I wanted you to stay on the sofa but somehow you ended up in my bed. I then made it clear I didn’t want to sleep with you and you just about seemed to understand that but just because you know the line between consented intercourse you seem to think its ok to blur all the lines in between. No means no if it refers to sex or just taking my clothes off. You were relentless and I found it really disrespectful. At one point I woke up to you rubbing yourself on me while I was asleep which I have no words for. Because you were stuck at my house because you drank too much I didn’t feel like I could do or say anything but I hope you listen to this and respect the next girl who tells you no.