Almost for 10 years, in and out of Tokyo where we met, I, as a woman who was “secretly evaluated” as someone who wasn’t as pretty or attractive enough to sleep with a man who is
even now, leading the “assessment” by openly stalking and spreading disgusting stories about me to people around me privately and business wise.
In this conservative country, even my mother is totally supportive to the guy who could sleep with me and continue with his harassment effort to “exclude me from the business scene for being too disgusting thus need to try to be liked by him”.
It started in 2007. I was yelled, shouted, scolded for not acting as if I loved him. I then was labelled as a woman any man should never date with or like.
Here the feminism is half a century behind and women have to act in the certain way to be accepted by men. If you are independent and liked by Westners, you are thought to be good but not pretty because pretty ones are less intelligent and good at attracting Japanese men. I might sound too radical but it’s kind of like that.
So here I am being skint under the Japanese men pressure to make me less attractive.
I got neurosis and had to spend about 5 years for mental treatment.
There should be no such thing.
