My 7 yo daughter asking her dad :
– I don’t understand why my little sister says she loves me but when I try to kiss her when she sits in the couch she pushes me away.
To which he replays:
– ‘she’s a girl, what did you expect!’
I of course told him off and explained to our daughter that kissing someone out of the blue when they don’t see you coming or expect a kiss ( aka without some kind of consent given either through words or through facial expressions ), can be weird and scary for that persom even if it was meant well.