Woman to woman

My husband and I have been married 2 years and together 7. We do not have any kids but would like to in the future. I have a wonderful career going that I am fortunate enough to work for a company that wants me to grow in my career. My husband cheers me on in my work and supports all that I do. We believe we are a team him and I take care of each other and when we have children we are a team and we raise them and we provide for them.
My mother in law doesn’t know when we plan on having kids but once said to me “a working wife is an insult to the husband. It takes the pride of being a man away from him. It is best for the kids of you are a stay at home mom and it is selfish if you have a career.”