When I worked as a waitress in a local pub the chef used to call me ‘his baby’ and squeeze my bum as I walked out of the kitchen. He also used to pick me up over his shoulder and smack my bum in front of the KP who never said anything. When I asked him to stop he told me that he was only joking and that I should calm down and learn to take a joke. When I told my manager, he laughed and agreed with him.