I was talking with a coworker and he asked if I had any interesting plans for the weekend. I explained that I was looking forward to getting a new tattoo and I described the tattoo and the location. His response was “how does your husband feel about you getting all those tattoos?”. My verbal response was “he’s fine with it.” My mental response was “why?, he doesn’t own me”. It’s 2020 and my coworker is a psychologist. We have a lot more work to do.