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I work in a male dominated field. I have one female colleague. She was the first female to be hired in 35 years. When she was about one year into the job, a few years before I was hired, our boss told the following joke over lunch: “A woman and a man are sitting in a bar. The woman tells the man that she used to be a man; she had just had her sex change surgery. The man said, ‘Oh, that must have hurt!,’ waving at the woman’s groin. The woman responded, ‘No man, that was actually okay. What really hurt, though, is when they removed half of my brain’.”