We were having beers after work with some colleagues.
There are 2 colleagues, and one of them usually says that they two are both perverts. We usually take it as a joke because this coworker is all the time saying nonsense (as we think but I don’t know) and the other coworker is very shy.
Okay, so after some beers they start telling stories, then the shy guy starts telling stories about his college.
He joked that in his college the showers are mixed, both men and women use the same space.
His joke was that they would go to watch the female students taking showers.
And the peak of his joke was that sometimes someone would say: “hey, there are girls in the showers, let’s go!” they would all go and maybe discovered that those girls were not pretty so they would be very disappointed.
When he told this, I froze and the only thing I could say was that I didn’t like it at all but nobody else reacted except for laughing at his joke.
Then I spoke with a friend who also went to the same college and she told me that the showers were individual but that they were open at the top so it could be that someone would try to look from above or hide to see, so she was all the time scared and afraid, she and others would try to go when there wasn’t anybody else in the showers.
So my “pervert” coworker not only made a super cruel joke, he and his friends were probably looking over the top of the showers.