So I got offered a really cool job in another city a few months ago. I’ve just gotten engaged though, so, even though he made a big fuss about how I didn’t have to do this – I really factored my fiance into the decision. He got offered a placement abroad … and said yes immediately. He just assumed that I would support him because it was a great career move for him. And … I did. This is kind of insidious, and I kind of hate myself for it. No one is asking me to put the wedding and family and home first .. I just do it. And now that I’ve seen what he’s done … I’m like … waaaait: I just did this to myself. 🙁