I went out to a bar/restaurant with a whole bunch of friends to celebrate a birthday. We were all sitting at one of those long, skinny bar-height tables. A lot of foot traffic was going back and forth behind us. I was sitting between my date and the birthday boy. I was wearing basically a go-out-T shirt and pair of black pants with flats. Nothing weird.
At first, I thought it had gotten crowded, as people seemed to be brushing by my butt, so I scooted further and further in under the table. It kept happening. Like all evening. I was finally so far under the table that I was sitting only on the front edge of the stool.
My men friends’ butts were sticking out way further than mine. Finally I said to them, that people were bumping into to me and scraping across my hind end and that it was too crowded.
They laughed at me. It was men walking by randomly running their hands (or whatever) across my butt!! My friends acted like it was no big deal. Like it was normal. Expected.
I was angry but what was I going to do? After that I tried to keep an eye out for passing gropers, but god they must be good at it because I couldn’t tell who it was.