A colleague drunk texted me two weeks ago while he was at a festival, telling me he missed me “and your tatties, I mean titties.” When I confronted him on it later, he just shrugged it off and said “I thought you could take it”. No apology, or acknowledgement of what a creepy, inappropriate thing that is to do. Yesterday, a different colleague asked me out on a date, despite the fact that he knows I am in a happy, long-term relationship and, oh yeah, he himself got married a mere two weeks ago. We are all part of a larger group of people who go for coffee together every morning. I previously considered these guys my friends. Now I feel so uncomfortable and creeped out and angry that I can’t face being near them. Thanks to their stupid horny impulses, I’ve lost the one social interaction at work that I used to really look forward to every day.
