Anon

There’s a kid I know who is often doing weird things. Sometimes, I mention them to my family. This kid is annoying and I really don’t like him very much, but he is funny. I only mention the things he does because they are funny, but my sister is convinced that I have a crush on him because of that.
If I was mentioning a girl doing funny and weird things she would never think I had a thing for them. I hate this.

Another thing that happens that is sort of like this is when two people of different genders have a close friendship, and everyone assumes that one or both of them has a crush on the other. People dont assume that with people of the same gender! I really hate this, and its harming me and my friend and a lot of other people. Please stop.