Rape?

Even today, UK law is written saying a rapist must use “His Penis”. Therefore a woman cannot commit rape! I I’m a 17 year old guy and got very drunk at a party. Passed out on a bed upstairs, I awoke to find a woman had pulled down my pants, stimulated my to make it hard and climbed on top of me, penetrating herself. I struggled and pushes her off, fleeing the room as she calls me names! How is that not rape? It was unwanted, nonconsensual and a violation, yet the law as written in 2003 says I was not raped!

My male friends just laughed it off and my female friends get really aggressive if I even try to say it I was raped! They argue saying that its not possible for a woman to rape a guy, yet I can’t stop thinking about it. I was violated yet nobody cares if you’re male! How is any of this possible in today’s society!