I was in a nightclub with friends, wearing my traditional African dress, which is basically a kind of kilt/ skirt. A woman from the group – a stranger – said she was “obsessed with my groin” and openly stared. I brushed it off, and carried on. She then said to me, “I can’t believe your bulge.” I am supposed to enjoy such attentions, but felt uncomfortable that this female continued to pester me. As I moved away, she decided to help herself and touch my penis anyway. I was very shocked, but eventually made a kind of joke about it, because I didn’t want to make a scene or lose face. Everybody laughed at me.