My conversation
Me: i dont want marriage or children, i never have
Them: youll change your mind/youre too young to think that/you havent met the right man yet/tell me in 10years when youre married with kids etc

My boyfriends conversation
Him: i dont want marriage or children. I never have
Them: what about your partner?
Him: she doesnt want that either
Them: sweet/lucky/highfives all round

Why cant i get that reaction for knowing what i want with my life? Why is he lucky but im deluded?