I was at a house party back in A Levels and my bum got smacked by a boy. What got me and still does to this day was that I didn’t slap him round the face or throw a drink over him! This was because I actually got some attention from a boy who wouldn’t normally look twice at me. The fact that girls crave attention and reassurance from boys even when it’s negative and degrading such as this, is worrying. We shouldn’t be made to feel like any attention is better than no attention!! Why do we look for gratification from males when we are dam right amazing people anyways no matter what we look like!