I’m being hauled into HR for the third time for objecting to sexism in the workplace, particularly from one well-connected individual who is particularly fond of calling me an irritable female.
So far, I’ve been demoted, told not to defend myself when he is sexist, and been accused by HR of stealing hours by being sick (after providing a doctor’s note) for 8 days in one year (even though my unpaid overtime exceeded my sick days by two full weeks.)
All this began after this guy’s nephew tried sexting me in Messenger and was rebuffed.
I’m not sure what will happen today, but I’m afraid. HR in the US is there to protect the abusers and retaliate against the victims. Never go to them.