Someone I dated a few times and also slept with told me after I (I thought reassuringly) told him that I had the coil contraceptive, that had he known that I had contraceptive in he would not have ever slept with me because “women only get contraceptive so that they can sleep around a lot without any repercussions”And that he doesn’t want to be with that type of woman.
I took time to calmly explain to him how disgustingly misogynistic his views were before asking him to leave. He thanked me and told me I’d changed his views so I let him stay. Bad decision. The next day he told me that he would never date a woman who does man’s work like construction because he wouldn’t want to feel muscles and rough hands on a woman and that he wouldn’t want to work with a woman either in his line of work (construction) because he’d always want to be helping her lift heavy things. That instead they should be writers and teachers. This time he couldn’t stay.
