I’m at uni and I live in dorms, all my friends here are guys and that just causes its how it worked out, nothing really, no big scandals there. and usually, they’re pretty good about not being sexist but something ive noticed is if I’m hanging out with these two specific guys form the group they always target me and belittle and insult me and call it just causal joking around and banter and I’m like, hey you’re making me feel upset can you stop. I asked two times, me on the verge of tears both time. After the first time like less than a few minutes later, they give me shit and then claim it was funny and was a joke because id specifically asked them to stop. the next time I asked them they didn’t really respond well just oh yeah well try and I gave up and just decided I wanted to separate myself from them which I did. and when I bring it up and be like yeah we’re not close as we used to they’re like “you didn’t even give us a chance to get better” after the second time of asking. they claimed that that’s just how they act and they make fun of each other but I knew it was different and they just wouldn’t listen. I hate that because I’m a girl who hangs out with the guy’s people take that as an excuse to be mean to me and when I call it out they say ‘you’re so emotional chill out’ ‘we thought you were one of the guys, stop being so sensitive’
