I was used for sex by an ex boyfriend. It was a complicated codependent & toxic rship. During it my ex partner would coerce me for nude pictures, shame me, insult me, threaten me amongst other things.

When I lashed out after his abuse mixed with my own mental & physical health issues, came to a head, he got me arrested.

One of the male policemen watched me get dressed to get taken down to the station, & at the station another made indecent jokes about ‘not killing yourself’ whilst in my cell.

I also have had another ex partner continuously stalk me on & off, sending me sexually aggressive messages & dick pics.