If i had to write my stories about sexism and abuse, it would fill 10 books. I guess i had become the queen of sexism because all men I know starting from own DAD never seen me as a woman but a sex object.
What hurts more is not assault and rape itself but, the feeling to know that your pain and suffering wont have value in the eyes of anyone.
everyone looking at you as if you failed your duties or broke the dignity. your fellow women looks at you as if you just shamed all women by pointing out the oppressor. Men don’t want to believe it is true because It takes away their power and privilege over women.
No-one wants to stand by your side because they dont wanna carry the stigma wherever they go. It even sounds worse when people talk about being disgrace to culture as if you dont hold a space in the world respect. Maybe one can understand the idea of submitting yourself to one man but Why is that all men wants you to prove them u that easy.
Its all messed up for real, not even our mothers want to hear that because first word and assumption is that you could have went around it. Around where? around what? Noone is sage until men understand that they are seek, no different to Dictatorship system where women are the target and have to follow what men desires. Men are sick and noone wants to say that because, they are the ones making those fucking decision anywhere.
People want to make you feel as if its suppose to happen and you are supposed to SHUTUP.